Du ved sandsynligvis, hvad du vil have i soveværelset, men nøglen er at vide, hvordan man spejler eller danser med din partner, siger Debra Silverman , Yogi Seane Corn's astrolog og forfatter af Det manglende element: inspirerende medfølelse med den menneskelige tilstand .
"gotiske tøj til mænd"
I astrologi er der forskellige personlighedstyper, og de har forskellige præferencer baseret på deres rytme. Kunsten at elske elsker altid den anden persons rytme, forklarer hun.
Er du nysgerrig efter, hvordan du og din partner matcher (eller sammenstød) mellem arkene? Her er Silvermans sammenbrud af hvert tegns turn-ons og turn-offs.
Tag Silvermans quiz: Hvad er dit manglende element?
Vædderen
21. marts - 19. april
Turn-ons:
Vædderen is a very assertive sign. They really love heat and passion, and they enjoy feisty, high-energy intercourse.
Vendinger:
Vædderen doesn’t want the lead-in. Don’t plan it out—let it be spontaneous, and let it happen in a very passionate moment.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad dit tegn siger om din ideelle partner
Tyren
20. april - 20. maj
Turn-ons:
Tyren is slow and sensual and loves the lead-in. They want to create atmosphere, to be in front of the fire with chocolates, wine, music, flowers in the room.
Vendinger:
At gøre det impulsivt og ikke have forberedelse eller plads.
Se også En hjemmepraksis til at vække din seksuelle vitalitet
Gemini
21. maj - 20. juni
Turn-ons:
Det er en turn-on for Gemini at have ord, historier, fantasier-der skal kommunikeres til. Det er næsten som at elske dem starter i samtalen mod soveværelset.
Vendinger:
At have det forudsigeligt. Gemini har brug for variation. Tænk på noget nyt og friskt, og de vil blive tændt.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad du skal være taknemmelig for, baseret på dit tegn
Kræft
21. juni - 22. juli
Turn-ons:
Kræft needs atmosphere, their sacred space. They don’t need much variety, but they need a lot of emotional contact. Write them a love letter, make them a really beautiful meal, prepare to go someplace special. Their issue is they never tell you what they want, so if you get them to open up, they will be so delighted.
Vendinger:
Forventes at gøre noget i stedet for at blive spurgt.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad dit skilt siger om dit diæt kropsbillede
Leo
23. juli - 22. august
high fade haircut stilarter til mænd
Turn-ons:
Leos love dressing up. Give them some kind of costume or role to play, or strange objects. They are open to the playful part of sexuality. They also love receiving gifts—Leo wants to feel really special.
Vendinger:
Hvis du forventer, at de er føjelige eller underdanige, er det en sluk. De elsker at være i kontrol. De kan også godt lide at være kreative - de hader at være almindelig.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad dit tegn siger om din karriere
Jomfru
23. august - 22. september
Turn-ons:
Jomfrus are very sensual, but they’re understated, so people don’t realize how sensual they are. They love a clean space, a really good meal, doing some kind of project or function together before making love.
Vendinger:
Hvis pladsen ikke er ren - som en rustik campingtur - eller hvis det ikke er privat.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad dit tegn siger om din kreative side
Vægt
23. september - 22. oktober
typer ure
Turn-ons:
Vægts are all about romance; there has to be a really genuine romantic sensibility. They love chocolates, cards, feeling special. They best thing is to talk to them, to really include your process at the psychological and emotional level.
Vendinger:
Når du ikke giver dem ord. Libras er codependent, og de er nødt til at føle, at du virkelig gjorde en indsats for at inkludere dem. Afslappet sex er en stor sluk.
Se også Astrologi: Hvad dit tegn siger om dit kærlighedsliv
Skorpion
23. oktober - 21. november
Turn-ons:
Skorpions have a huge sexual appetite. They love long, leisurely sexuality, like spending the whole weekend in bed, and it’s not a casual event. They love deep emotional conversation where it’s psychological and not just sexual, where they feel so close to you. Sharing a secret is a big turn-on.
Vendinger:
Det værste for en skorpion er at gå hurtigt og gøre det til en quickie og ikke have den luksuriøse, lækre, ægte følelsesmæssige binding. De er faktisk mere følelsesladede end seksuelle, men de er hemmeligholdte over det.
Se også Vi spurgte: Har yogier bedre sex?
Skytten
22. november - 21. december
Turn-ons:
Skytten needs to change it up. Plan a trip, recommend an exciting book, do it outside, surprise them someplace completely random, like on an airplane. They love surprises. They’re also very passionate.
Vendinger:
Skytten hates when it’s lukewarm, or when they’re expected to be normal.
Se også I humør: En ayurvedisk overtagelse af sexlyst
Stenbukken
22. december - Janaury 19
Turn-ons:
Stenbukkens love predictability, stability, and having a consistent schedule, for example, having a date night every Tuesday night. They love to talk about work and business and what they’re doing, more than sexy, romantic talk. They also love to help you in some way.
Vendinger:
Hvis du er flyvende, inkonsekvent, mislykket, uren, rodet, spontan, uansvarlig eller ikke klædt godt, er disse sluk for Stenbukken.
Se også Sandheden om yoga og sex
Vandmand
20. januar - 18 -februar
Turn-ons:
Vandmand likes toys and stories, and they don’t want to feel confined. They have no inhibitions, and they’re interested in open relationships (or at least talking about them).
1970'ernes mode
Vendinger:
De ønsker ikke at være normale eller passende eller lægge i en kasse.
Se også Yogaen for forhold
Fisk
19. februar - 20. marts
Turn-ons:
Fisk are the best lovers of the zodiac. They have the ability to transcend time and space, to go off to another world through touch, and they have the best imagination. They have a crazy fantasy life, and they can allow boundaries to go beyond what others would consider unacceptable.
Vendinger:
Fisk is very secretive. Don’t tell anyone what you’re doing—let it be your little secret world. They love to hear your fantasies, but don’t want to be locked into any of them. They also hate being very coarse—their whole thing is refinement.
Se også 7 meditationer for de forhold, vi alle har haft
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Debra Silverman believes the quickest path to falling in love with your fate is through learning astrology. Join her self-study online astrology course, Inner View: Discover Yourself through the Stars. Registration is open now for a limited time—sign up here !
